The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, Mark Haddon

It’s unusual for me to talk about a book that I haven’t read in recent years, but I had the pleasure of seeing The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time at the Apollo Theatre on Tuesday (World Autism Awareness Day, as it happens), and it reminded me of how much I loved and appreciated the novel. If I’d had my copy with me here, I certainly would have sat down and reread it before writing this, but I didn’t, so you’ll have to take my word that it’s a wonderful book that deserves to be read not only because its young hero has Asperger’s/autism (Haddon has been particular in interviews over the years about the his intention not to label the character specifically, so I’ll refrain from doing so as much as possible, out of respect for his choice), but because this is a mystery story and an odyssey.

One of the topics discussed (with good reason) by the LGBT community is that it’s rare to find successful mainstream books, movies, and television about LGBT people without the focus being on their sexuality or gender identity, as opposed to stories about paleontologists or astronauts or gymnasts who are, incidentally, gay, transgendered, etc. The same is true for people with disabilities. Haddon has been vocal about how his book is not about a boy with a disability – it’s about a fifteen year old who loves math and who has, in his words, some unusual behavior problems. Now, I personally have a problem with the phrase “behavioral problems,” because in my mind, this is and always has been a book whose protagonist has Asperger’s (regardless of the author’s opinion). In my training as an early childhood educator, and as a teacher who particularly loved to work with children on the autistic spectrum, I would never label a child’s behavior as “problematic,” and it rubs me the wrong way to hear anyone else do it. That being said, I still wholeheartedly support that Haddon has written this book without an agenda beyond great storytelling.

The play, aside from being brilliantly acted, was also staged wonderfully, the black-backed graph paper walls and floor creating the orderly perception of Christopher Boone’s mind, while the use of flashing lights, loud sounds, and even some chaotic ballet brought to life an extremely compelling story. It was adapted by Simon Stephens without direct collaboration from Haddon, but apparently, he was quoted as saying the play helped him to fall in love with his own book again.

In the Q and A afterward (which I was not expecting and was thrilled to attend), two moments in particular caught my attention in relation to how this book and play are perceived. The first was from a man who asked how the occasional moments of humor – the tension breaks, as they were – happened about in the play, since he hadn’t read any such thing in the text. The second was an answer in reference to how the autistic community was responding to this adaptation. In answer to the latter question, the cast talked about a “relaxed” performance they had done a few months before that had been open specifically to people with autism (schools, families, etc) who wanted to come see the play in an environment where audience activity (the need to leave or speak or move at any time) would be completely acceptable; the volume and lighting were adjusted to be less startling as well. Every member of the cast said, in his or her own way, that it was the best performance they had done, and that the audience had been riveted, enthusiastic, and had, indeed, found great humor in the show. One of the actors said he was astounded by the sense of empathy he felt from that audience, from the brothers and sisters and parents and teachers connected with those who have autism – that they responded with great joy to the sense of community and understanding found in that place.

I went away from that show deeply touched and reminded of the many parents I worked with while I was teaching. Because I taught very young children (three months to five years), the push was huge to identify children who were struggling, for whatever reason, and to open a dialogue with the family about how best we might serve the child both at school and at home. Since I was had not trained extensively in special education, I relied heavily on more experienced teachers, support staff, and parents who had gone through the system already for advice on the bureaucratic side of things. What I rarely needed assistance with was the children themselves, and I think in large part, that stems from an overabundance of empathy on my part.

It is very hard for me not to apologize for describing myself as an empathetic person, but recently, I’ve been practicing acknowledging strengths, so I will say it again: I am an extremely, uncomfortably empathetic person. It’s difficult, sometimes, for me to be around people because I have trouble blocking out intense energy and emotion from others, but it also has made me a responsive teacher. It has made me the kind of teacher who recognizes, as Haddon has, that every child, regardless of a diagnosis, is an individual human being with very particular needs and rhythms. If that is taken into account, it becomes obvious that every child is in need of support. Every child, autistic or not, responds to stimuli differently. Some children crave routine, or solitude, or extremely active play, but regardless, children thrive on being understood as individuals, rather than as notes on a page.

Parents, likewise, require a gentle touch, and this proved much more difficult for me. As adults, we have certain expectations of children, especially our own, and it can be incredibly difficult to accept that a child will have a different kind of life than that expectation. My job required me to become sensitive to the grieving process involved in letting those ideas go. When I first started teaching, I saw this grief as willful ignorance, as a stumbling block in the path of productive discussion, and it made me angry. I have to say, I still treasure those early parents, those who were willing to be patient with me as they processed the fear for what the world might do to demean their children. I can imagine the sensation of relief those families would feel coming together in a theatre, of all places! Of course they would laugh! Of course they would find encouragement from such an empowering, honest story! Of course – because for once, they could feel safe from judgement.

Both the book and the play embrace Christopher’s unique perspective of the world while recognizing the challenges he faces while performing tasks that may seem simple to others. The gift of both the book and the play, however, is that this character is approached with automatic respect from the very first moment. His disability, whatever it may be, does not keep him from living his life. Christopher is relatable because he triumphs and suffers as anyone would, and if his parents cry at night because of the way he behaves – well, every parent does. There are no easy children, just as there are no perfect adults. We choose our adventures based on the skills we are born with, as well as those we develop as we grow. Christopher is the same, choosing to create a meaningful life out of what he’s received and what he’s worked for.

Stories like this, I believe, are ones worth hearing.


To learn more about Mark Haddon, head over here. For information about the play, go here.

29 thoughts on “The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time, Mark Haddon

  1. I’ve been wanting to read the book, now I’m going to have to take a trip and see the play! How nice it is to hear that a reenactment of a novel has turned out as well as you seemed to think this one has.

    1. I read the book in a high school class and it is a fantastic piece of realism. I have trouble rereading books but I would highly recommend this book for anybody needing something different to read. Haddon wrote a beautiful book with enough detail where you can practically see/feel how Christopher is feeling as he’s going through his “investigation”.
      I would love to see the play, even though it’s nowhere near here. But it sounds like something really interesting to see.

      1. I think I was especially moved by how much care they took with the book. As you say, it has so much precise detail, and that was really honored in this production. It’s rare to see an adaptation with such a beautiful connection to the book, and if it ever does make its way to Canada (I could imagine it maybe being done in Vancouver or Toronto someday), you should check it out :)

        1. If I can afford to make a sole trip to Vancouver, I would definitely consider it ;)

    2. It’s definitely worth the trip! The entire audience was glued to the stage – there are a few intense moments of silence, and people held themselves so still – it was truly remarkable how engaging it was.

  2. Yours is the first blog I have followed as I am totally new to blogging. I struggled last night and today trying, somewhat ineffectually I might add, working on creating my own. The progress has been time-intensive and the process frustrating. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Since one of the tips was to follow other people’s blog if you want an interest in your own, I scrolled down the list of blog topics and chose “reading” since I am a self-admitted “bookaholic” with no regrets and no desire for recovery. Your blog caught my eye because you described yourself as someone who loves to read. I chose this post to comment on as I own a Standard Poodle and recognized it on the book cover image. Great post and great insight into the “issues” labels can create. I look forward to reading more of your posts. Right now I am reading severel books, as always, but especially an old one written in 1945 called “A Tree Grows In Brooklyn.” It’s a classic and is on the Library of Congresses’ 88 most influential books of the 21st century list. It is like chocolate for the mind. I savor each word and paragraph….

    1. Thanks for making me the first blog you follow! That’s a lovely thing to hear :) I think the best advice anyone ever gave me was “write to a schedule.” Whether it be one time a week, every two weeks, or more than once a week, be predictable. It will help you as a writer (otherwise it’s easy to get distracted by all sorts of other things…) and it will give your readers a sense that you respect their time. I’ve followed many blogs with great content, but the posting schedule was so erratic that I eventually lost interest. Even a sentence or two, or a picture every week will help build blogging into a habit!

      Also, I love “A Tree Grows in Brooklyn.” It’s been way too long since I’ve picked it up!

  3. I read the book a couple of years ago and really enjoyed it. I have an autistic nephew so I take a keen interest in any media which reflects autism.

    Enjoyed reading your thoughts – especially liked the comment about characters being a person first and foremost who then happens to be LGBT or being a person first and foremost and then having a disability. It’s something I try to practice in my own work where my protagonist is a student who investigates the supernatural and fights terrifying monsters first and foremost – but he just happens to be gay.

    1. I really believe that the “normalizing” of culture will expand its definitions in our lifetimes to include the many people who are underrepresented in all forms of media, but sometimes, it’s frustratingly slow! I can’t wait for books like yours to become the norm!

      1. We can but hope it will happen. I find it all a bit paradoxical that things that are so common in society (like LGBT people for example) are considered to not be “normal” – I mean they must be normal! Lol. And thank you, I take that last line as a real compliment!

        1. I agree! I’m pretty sure the fact that each of us is a unique being is what’s “normal” – anything else is just cultural bias. Just this morning, I was reading an article that referenced Martin Luther King Jr’s line (that he apparently borrowed and refined from an even older source), “the moral arc of the universe is long, but it bends toward justice,” and it summed up nicely my hopes on the matter.

    1. Do it! I’m sure you have the struggle, as I do, between old favorites and the possibility of wonderful new books, but sometimes a reread is just the thing!

  4. It is beautifully written and quite touching book. I would strongly recommend ‘A spot of bother’ if you haven’t already had the pleasure. It is a different read and a great exploration of people. I was gripped by both.

    1. I haven’t read “A Spot of Bother,” and I’ll make sure to add it to my (admittedly daunting) list of books to read! I already checked out a short summary and it looks great. Thanks for the recommendation!

  5. I’ve read this while proofreading it at my workplace. I never thought something so simple in its execution and premise could easily break and soften my heart.

    1. Haddon definitely has a powerful way with words. It really is a simple concept, but he turns it into something epic and lovely. I’m glad you enjoyed it as well.

  6. Interestingly Haddon deals with an LGBT storyline in his most recent book The Red House, and it’s focused on sexual identity, but then again the character is a teenager coming of age. In my books I’m trying to deal with LGBT characters who are gay or trans, but the focus of the story, at least my first novel, is not about dealing with sexuality. It’s about a gay character dealing with relationship issues, from a particular perspective because of his sexual orientation and his history because of it. I would like to see more books like this myself – as they say, write what you would like to read!

    1. Another commenter brought this issue up as well, since he’s also writing a book right now that has nothing in particular to do with the fact that his protagonist is gay (meaning, it’s not a plot point, merely a personal characteristic), and I’m glad the comment I made in the post has brought this up more than once. Every person deserves to be able to easily find books with characters who reflect their lives, and that can mean a lot of things to a lot of people. Diversity is what makes us stronger, and I would love to see that reflected on the page as much as I want to see justice, tolerance, and understanding reflected in law. In order to make a real difference, it has to become the norm in all aspects of culture.

  7. I had stumbled across this book on Goodreads awhile back and added it to my to-read list. After reading your review, I think I’ll bump it up a couple of spots. And by the sounds of it, a box of tissues for an inevitable feel-good, cleansing cry may be in order!

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